Tease Me, Deny Me
teased-pleased:

If you can cum? No ofcause you cant..maybe a few slaps will calm you down

teased-pleased:

If you can cum? No ofcause you cant..maybe a few slaps will calm you down

No orgasms vs. no touching

Mistress and I continue to figure out what works best for us and it continues to be a lot of fun :). What I’ve personally found is that when I have a day where I am not allowed to have an orgasm (so…most days) but I am free to touch, I do touch. A lot. I make myself horny and edge myself and ride that high. It’s almost like a drug in and of itself.

The thing is that not long after starting all of this, mistress and I agreed that not only will my orgasms belong to her, but my cock does as well. And her cock has been getting a lot of pleasure, even if it’s not getting a release. We had a few tasks planned as we have been, but for the moment we’ve set those aside. Several of them have been involving a chance to cum, and both of us like chance games, but mistress is finding that she ultimately wants to be in charge of the decision instead of leaving it to chance. My last task technically was on Saturday, which was a randomly chosen day and I was allowed to cum sometime between 5 and 7 if I had the chance. I was at work, so I didn’t have the chance, though I likely wouldn’t have taken the opportunity anyway.

So with all of that in mind, to replace Sunday’s task, mistress just made it a “no touching” day. She’s finding that she really enjoys denying me not just orgasms but even just being able to pleasure myself. And of course, as her denial slut, I am happy to oblige :). In fact, she likes it so much that that was today’s task also…and tomorrow’s task as well. It’s interesting because thus far I’m finding that not having orgasms to not be a challenging as I would have thought. Last time I went five days before I was allowed to cum. Sure, it was frustrating, and after several games involving edging I was legitimately expressing my desire to cum. But it wasn’t the end of the world. And this time around, it’s been even easier (although I haven’t done a lot of edging thus far.)

No touching, however, is a different story. Going a day without touching before my last orgasm was a challenge, though I did get through pretty well I think. Similarly, going a day without touching this time around was…well, I guess it was actually a little easier. Though the fact that I had to work most of the day makes a big difference. Work has a tendency to zap a lot of my sexual energy until I’m back at home. But this morning I woke up going into day two of no touching. And I was horny as hell. Mistress certainly enjoyed my descriptions of my frustration :). Mornings are traditionally a time that I would always have an orgasm. Wake up with morning wood, get some good thoughts in my head, maybe even surf Tumblr porn on my phone, and start my dad with a pleasant orgasm. But today I woke up on day four of no orgasms and day two of no touching, with morning wood, and that all combined together to create a lot of desire that can’t be satisfied without disappointing mistress.

But needless to say, despite the frustration, I enjoy all of this…as does mistress :). It’s a learning process and it’s so much fun.

Task updates (Audio tease, etc.)

I’m a little behind on my updates but that’s not a huge amount to report on at the moment. Wednesday night we couldn’t do the planned task so as an alternative mistress recorded a tease/jerk-off instruction thing for me with two possible endings, determined by a coin flip prior to listening. I won’t go completely in detail, but it hit upon some things that seems to have thus far worked for us pretty well. It started out with things like slowly touching my body, imagining it was mistress, and using clothespins on my nipples. Eventually it worked its way up to letting me touch myself and to one of mistress’ favorites, having me keeping myself on edge without stopping, warning punishment if I needed to stop. thankfully this once more turned out to not be an issue; I seem to do pretty well with it, but I will admit that I am not confident that I’ll never mess this us…at which point I guess I’ll see what mistress has in store for me as punishment.

Prior to starting this, I flipped tails, meaning I listened to the “main” audio file, immediately followed by the “tails” audio file, which flowed together. At this point I had an orgasm in five days (quite an accomplishment for me), and mistress made it clear that whether or not I got to orgasm this day would be determined by the coin toss. I have no idea what the outcome would have been if it was heads, but flipping tails had me continuing to edge…before finally allowing me a minute and a half to cum :). But as mistress predicted even within the JOI audio, I did not require this much time. In fact, it only took me about 10 seconds. It felt amazing and it was quite a load.

I’m loving the audio stuff, and based on future plans, mistress really seems to like it too :). Like so many other things, she seems to be quite the natural despite being new at it. There’s plenty more to learn I’m sure, but she fits into the domme role so well and I am so lucky :). So from this point I have a series of tasks I could choose from in what order. Since I had just cum, it seemed appropriate that Thursday I choose the task that had me not touching. Friday (yesterday) I choose the task that allowed me to touch, but no cumming. Saturday (today) had a special task that was randomly chosen by mistress, which allowed me to cum at any point between 5 and 7. Unfortunately for me, I was at work. I’m kind of glad for it though :).

That more or less catches up everything up to this point, save for one special post that about a scene that didn’t end too well, but I want to get that one ready when I have more time. Coming up on our agenda I’m we’re going to be looking at some thing and I think we’re going to be changing it up just a little bit. I don’t want to say too much before we really figure out, but I’ll just say that mistress seems to be taking much more interest in exercising control over the cock that she owns ;).

bestofthewestbd:

Getting whatever you want from a man is easy.

bestofthewestbd:

Getting whatever you want from a man is easy.

redheadsissycuckold:

Modern day couple. :) My Dom and me.

redheadsissycuckold:

Modern day couple. :) My Dom and me.

prayfuckdie: