Tease Me, Deny Me

”..See boy. That is what happens when you promise not to cum and then can’t keep that promise…”

”..See boy. That is what happens when you promise not to cum and then can’t keep that promise…”

herollsthedice:

Selfie in the bedroom gives a pretty good idea how things go in our house.

herollsthedice:

Selfie in the bedroom gives a pretty good idea how things go in our house.

thrilledbytease:

Keeping him RIGHT on that very edge of drooling, where her endless stroking only made him increasingly more desperate without ANY hope of relief, THAT was what made him ALWAYS WANT HER!!!! Well, that AND the fact that from time to time she would bring her other hand in to tickle his throbbing balls, making him gasp and writhe and even MORE desperate to cum, while she would just smile at him , lick her lips and needlessly ask “Good, isn’t it, baby? SO GOOD!!!! I can FEEL how much you WANT IT!!!

thrilledbytease:

Keeping him RIGHT on that very edge of drooling, where her endless stroking only made him increasingly more desperate without ANY hope of relief, THAT was what made him ALWAYS WANT HER!!!! Well, that AND the fact that from time to time she would bring her other hand in to tickle his throbbing balls, making him gasp and writhe and even MORE desperate to cum, while she would just smile at him , lick her lips and needlessly ask “Good, isn’t it, baby? SO GOOD!!!! I can FEEL how much you WANT IT!!!

beggingforpermission:

onlyshecums:

Today marks the day my wife has officially had 500 more orgasms than me so far this year. Our goal was 1000 before the year’s end, so we’re a little behind schedule. I’m already only getting one or two a month for myself, so even if I refrain from coming all together, it won’t catch me up very much at all. If I have any hope of catching up to the goal, l’ll have to worship her pussy much more aggressively between now and New Years.

My Top side doesn’t come out very often with men, but when it does, it’s all about the T&D.

I have to remind myself (the few times that I’ve done joint scenes) that most of the time the men really do want to cum in the end. Luckily, I’m not their Mistress and don’t make the final call.

hottieandsubbie:

“I spend quite a lot of time thinking about my role as a Domme but for once I wanted to assess what my submissive’s role is to me. He is there to give me pleasure. Sheer physical and sexual pleasure without me needing to feel guilty or needing to provide any quid pro quo. I can lie back, so to speak, and enjoy freely what he gives. He is there for me to play with. I can play with his body and mind and bring him to pleasure so intense he loses himself in it. I can learn to control his reactions and practise my skills at doing so. You’ll note that as a result he is both for giving and receiving pleasure but without the automatic requirement that both parties have an orgasm in the same session or they aren’t ‘doing it properly’ that produces pressure and limits enjoyment. He is there for me to exercise my frustrations on his body. When the world is too much for me I can take out my pain by giving it to him. That he takes this, purely for me, that he loves me enough to give me this outlet only makes me love him more. He is there for me to own. I control him in subtle ways, taking what no vanilla girlfriend can. I have power that thrills and yet that I find myself holding back from. I will not abuse this generosity of spirit but I will treasure it as a precious gift. This is what I want from my submissive, this is what I receive. This is what he is for.”

What Is My Submissive For by Caitlin on Wordpress (via the-boss-anna)

I read this and at first I thought, “What a lucky sub.” But really both people are lucky :).

It’s funny

hottieandsubbie:

When I first started this tumblr, it was pretty much to give me ideas for new things to try out with my hubbie.  let’s face it?  who wants a boring, lackluster sex life?

it worked.  I’ve got lots of ideas and I think we actually are going to put him in full time chastity.  he’s very reluctant.  it’s taken me a while to figure this out, but he’s afraid of giving up control.  I don’t blame him.  But we both know that once he does, we’re both going to love it.  its just getting over that initial fear that is the tough part.

Something I really didn’t expect, my tumblr use has REALLY rekindled my attraction towards women.  many of the pics here are so hot.  soft, beautiful female bodies.  tight, bubbly bottoms.  these girls are just beautiful and fill me with lust.  I want to get them in my room and get them naked.  I want to snuggle them, spank them, sit idle while the pamper me. I want them to worship my pussy with kisses. 

Sadly, these thoughts are just adding to my hubbie’s anxiety.  I’m going to have to work around this.  hmmm…. 

Giving up control is very scary…but it is one of the most exciting things one can do, or at least for me it is.

Personal update

So…it’s been a while since I’ve made a personal blog post. My interest in Tumblr sometimes waxes and wanes, and it just so happens that I haven’t been giving much attention to Tumblr. If you’ve enjoyed my blog posts in the past, I apologize for dropping off.

With that said, it’s probably most worth noting that me and my mistress broke up. It didn’t go bad or anything, but life got in the way and we both agreed that she just didn’t have the time anymore.

Looking back, it was an absolutely wonderful experience and while we hold no romantic feelings for each other, she will always hold a special place in my heart. She is an awesome person and was an awesome mistress. The experience also opened me up to a whole new world and mindset. I am currently getting involved with my local community and am actively seeking a mistress. Once that happens, I don’t know how much I’ll share on this blog since it won’t be an online relationship, but we’ll see!

perpetualtease:

Excellent ruined orgasm.

great-regress:

healthybdsm:

In the BDSM community it may be hard to tell where the line between kinky consensual play and abuse is crossed. Let this be a rule of thumb: trust your intuition. If you feel something is wrong, IT PROBABLY IS. If you feel you are being mistreated, SAY SOMETHING.

-Pepper

(This is a photoset; click the title, then the arrows on each photo!)

Always be aware! Abuse is never ok….and it’s not ‘part of the game’. A real Dom/me is responsible for knowing your likes and limits and will ALWAYS respect them! Being a Dom/me isn’t about taking power, it’s about having it given.
The responsibility of the sub is to trust. Trust isn’t given, it’s earned! The responsibility of a Dom/me is to earn the trust then make a safe and fun experience for both parties. Both participants should ask many questions and both should answer truthfully!

I haven't cum in weeks please let me cum I can barely stand it oh god
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femsubdenial:

Naughty gray anon faces never get to cum.

Mistress could make this heaven or torture, depending on her mood :)

Mistress could make this heaven or torture, depending on her mood :)