Tease Me, Deny Me
chastitydesires:

dickncage:

chien-de-nadya:

MistressT Chastity Cruelty
A sexy blow job with lots of tongue & spit…ACTUAL FUCKING of your cock while locked in a chastity cage. Feeling her mouth & pussy against the sensitive, swollen flesh pushing out through the spaces in the cage…ball licking…Jesus H. Christ.

I’ve had this done before.  Freaking awesome!

why do I want this so bad?

chastitydesires:

dickncage:

chien-de-nadya:

MistressT Chastity Cruelty

A sexy blow job with lots of tongue & spit…ACTUAL FUCKING of your cock while locked in a chastity cage. Feeling her mouth & pussy against the sensitive, swollen flesh pushing out through the spaces in the cage…ball licking…Jesus H. Christ.

I’ve had this done before.  Freaking awesome!

why do I want this so bad?

chastitydesires:

new-chastity-male:

Chastity and Teasing Femdom

From http://www.bdsmstreak.com/video/15298/chastity-and-teasing-femdom

I could use an hour or two of this. .
asthewifewishes:

Wow…is that ever true….

asthewifewishes:

Wow…is that ever true….

Task #4: No Touching (Done on Monday)

The task here is short and sweet. No touching all day. This was added when we realized (well, mistress realized it, but I overlooked it as well) that we were a task short for the number of days planned out. But despite its simplicity, it is very effective and I think mistress in definitely liked it and is already an assigned task again in the near future. I wouldn’t be surprised if this one shows up about once a week, or some variation of it (I threw out several ideas for mixing it up.)

When we first laid out basic ground rules, likes/dislikes, etc. we agreed that my orgasms would belong to mistress (this is, after all, the very basis of our relationship) but we didn’t explicitly discuss “ownership” of my cock itself and whether or not mistress was allowed to control how or when I could touch outside of scenes. I think I kind of always expected this to kind of be the case, but I suppose it was good to get started with the relationship first before saying for sure. But needless to say, I didn’t have a problem with it since it seemed completely fitting, not to mention it’s a practical way to exhibit submissiveness in an online relationship.

I suspected this would be quite a challenge, and it definitely was. I expressed a little concern to mistress ahead of time, and she agreed that I would be allowed three accidental touches without punishment, and that I really didn’t want to go over that due to what she had in mind for me Tuesday night (which is tonight.) I can only imagine that this leeway will not last long. I got through the day with only accidentally touching myself once. I had a brief break during my day of personal responsibilities and I was looking at porn on Tumblr and I just absent-mindedly touched the topside of my cock through my pants. There were many similar close calls throughout the day, but that was the only slip up. Despite feeling a little disappointed in it at the time, I was pretty happy myself by the end of the day and I think mistress was too.

It really is a mental exercise in self-control and obedience. A cock cage, for example, would also prevent touching. But that’s a physical barrier that takes it completely out of the wearer’s hands. Which is totally a turn on and a desire in and of itself, but it’s different. I’ll be honest, it’s not my favorite thing, but I do enjoy pleasing mistress. Especially knowing that she’s free to pleasure herself while I can’t even touch. It is also worth noting that we had some time to chat late that day and she did allow me to touch, very lightly, with the tip of my fingers. And it felt great after not being touched like that all day. So that was nice :).

So, yeah…again, it was a pretty simple day, but by no means a dull day. Tonight mistress and I have a scene planned (it is basically our version of Red Light/Green Light) that I am very excited for, and I think really has the potential to push me to the limit after not getting off for four days now (which is likely a personal record). I guess that depends on how sadistic mistress wants to be :). It’s also going to greatly depend on my performance, but I’ll explain how all of this works, as well as how it all went, tomorrow!

anonymousswitch:

badcontrols:

slow motion of a forced orgasm while in chastity, the vibration creates faraday waves - femdom + science

Reason #3 for a magic wand

anonymousswitch:

badcontrols:

slow motion of a forced orgasm while in chastity, the vibration creates faraday waves - femdom + science

Reason #3 for a magic wand

deviantsubmale:

Slave being milked by ruined orgasm

deviantsubmale:

Slave being milked by ruined orgasm

heavyblueballs:

"… Imagine what I could put here. That ofcourse if I unlocked you…."

heavyblueballs:

"… Imagine what I could put here. That ofcourse if I unlocked you…."

heavyblueballs:

"….and here we go..oh…well I’ll try again..oh.. yes I know you’re close…but you can get just a little closer for me, right boy?…. 3.2.1 and.. No!… Ok, one more try…"
"…She went for hours making him whimper and beg for release and her to stop.. he didn’t knew why he did it at the end…."

heavyblueballs:

"….and here we go..oh…well I’ll try again..oh.. yes I know you’re close…but you can get just a little closer for me, right boy?…. 3.2.1 and.. No!… Ok, one more try…"

"…She went for hours making him whimper and beg for release and her to stop.. he didn’t knew why he did it at the end…."

my-mistress-should-see:

I think you will think twice when you hesitate to my instructions.

my-mistress-should-see:

I think you will think twice when you hesitate to my instructions.

cbtgames:

lostbutnothopeless:

cbtgames:

teasemedenyme:

My mistress and I have what we’ve referred to as a play-based relationship, but it is online-based and we do each have our own lives, plus a not-insignificant time zone difference (although this difference should become less of a problem in a few months.) So a key component of our play is daily…

Thanks very much for the detailed report. This turns me on so much. I wanna be in your position but without all the cumming.

Oh trust me, that amount of cumming is not going to be normal. Mistress wants to keep a mistress to pet orgasm ration of above 3, but no longer than 2. Her real goal is for it to be above 5 though. She anticipates that this might mean no more than 5 orgasms in a month. I can choose when to specifically aim for that 5 though, and mistress has offered some *very* nice incentives involving pictures for me if I can accomplish that. We’re a little behind at the moment on keeping track of the tally (which I will post weekly) but I do believe right now it’s at about 4. Let’s just say that the acquisition of her new pet has her very excited :).

I have not had an orgasm for the last 28 days and I feel more alive than ever, but I am horny like never before. I try to edge myself every possible second but I am not allowing cumming. Nevertheless I am leaking precum after a few strokes and have to be very careful not to cum.
Having a mistress like yours sounds like heaven, giving up the control…

Enjoy your experience and let us participate

[Sorry, reblogged from the wrong blog last time]

That’s impressive, man. This is brand new to me (actually doing it, not learning about it.) I haven’t had an orgasm in three days now. Of course, keep in mind that for most of my life since puberty up until less than a week ago, I usually came twice a day. Almost always at least once a day. I pretty much don’t have the self-control on my own to deny myself for any significant period of time. That’s why I wanted a mistress. Anyway, It’s an interesting experience, and I’ll probably share more thoughts tomorrow about my denial since I’m guaranteed to still be denied up until that point (me and mistress has planned play time tomorrow night, which is in addition to that day’s task.)

My mistress is indeed like heaven :). I think it was an incredible amount of luck, but we seem to get along famously, not just with kinks but also personality, so it’s a really good situation. It’s definitely already been an experience that will surely stick with me for a very, very long time. And the idea of involving my blog and its audience has definitely come up already (I brought it up pretty early actually.) I do want to try and see if I can’t build up some sort of active audience first (I have nearly 900 followers, hopefully some will be interested in asking questions and sharing thoughts and such). So we’ll see how this blogging thing goes and see what we can come up with.